The court has approved my divorce

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The divorce proceedings are well on their way.

I have the decree nisi which means that the court has approved the divorce. The next stage will be to make the decree nisi absolute and this will be done very soon, sometime in August according to my lawyer. Once I have the decree absolut in hand, I will be officially divorced. I am thinking of marking this momentous event by doing something terrifying like skydiving.

It’s a strange feeling (the impending divorce) that I can’t quite articulate. It is not elation or relief but rather a cocktail of conflicting emotions. A mixture of anxiety, sadness, joy and empowerment with a strong sense of unfamiliarity. It is a path that I haven’t tread before, ever. I wanted to be here for so long but never got this far. I threatened to come this far many many times.

In fact from the very…

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